and especially in light of the fact that i have two more children that are gay. >> so how have your views on homosexuality changed since you were a young man? >> i was raised in the evangelical tradition and i at one point believed that homosexuality is incompatible with christianity. however, i have always thought that if it turned out not to be a choice that our theology was in trouble. over time as i went through my training in seminary, my views started to change. i got exposed to different slarz and opened myself up to a different view. by the time our son came out, i was ready to embrace him and i did. my wife did as well. we affirmed him and said, look, we love you no matter what. if this is who you are, then we will affirm you. >> how does your congregation feel about this? >> my congregation is just as devided as the rest of america on this subject. so it's been a tough six months since the complaint was filed. >> and if, in fact -- i guess i get back to my original question to you. why would you stay in a church where you don't believe in some of the fundamental principles? >> w